Archive for March, 2016



We are so condition to expect the worst, that it hinders our joys of trying anything new.  


Rise & Grind!

Each day we face difficulties. Those are merely a test to see how bad you want the life that you desire.

Say to yourself; “On the other side of fear, IS LIFE!!”

Get yours! 


Rise and Grind!

Fear can be paralyzing and fill us with doubt. 

Let you in on a secret…… That life you desire, is yours if you can walk through the fire wall of fear. Take chances!!!

It may pay off, it may not. At Least you have the comfort of knowing you took your shot.  

Wake up and live!!!


Rise and grind!

We all fall down,here and there. Don’t let embarrassment or false pride cause you to refuse a helping hand. If it’s offered, it means someone cares.  

Go be great today and everyday after. 



Posted: March 16, 2016 in family, Friends, Knowledge, Life, Mind, quote, Self, Uncategorized

When asking for advice, be conscious of the person you confide in. Most are more than happy to pour gasoline on a spark.  


Weakness is believing being strong is not needing anyone and pretending to be ok.

Strength is when you can admit you’re hurt, sad and need a hand.

Here is a topic I was thinking about on my morning walk. 

Do you think you can open someone’s mind and heart by showing them love,understanding and compassion? 
Or are too many jaded and untrusting to freely give themselves to someone? 

I’ll chime in with my thoughts in a bit.  
But really interested in what you guys think.  

In doing an on line interview for my up coming novel “When Love Dies”

I was asked why I’m such a hopeless romantic?

Why do I believe in romance in today’s world?

It’s simple, if I can’t believe romance exist, then I don’t want to be in this world!
Later I thought about it more. Here’s my rambles.
Romance doesn’t mean, that love is perfect or that you don’t have your issues. It’s how you communicate with each other, to understand one another.


I believe in that more so today, than ever in my life!
I think of romance, love and what it takes to make it work?
I think you make things work, because you want to!

Some of your behavior should change, (because you may notice somethings that may hurt the one you love.) Not because you’re requested to do so.

You do it because you love that person, you want to do nothing more but to make that person happy!

In return they will do everything to make you happy!

I always flashback to my grandparents and it always makes me cry every time.

Thinking about how my grandfather really cared about my grandmother and vice versa. They were the world to one another.

They had weird ways to show it some times, but you know they loved each other.  The way my grandfather treated my grandmother showed me what it meant to be a man in love.

I will never forget the pain my grandfather had in his eyes the day his wife passed.

It was as if someone ripped his heart out of his chest. I felt his lost in my heart and though he was sad at that moment in time. I can think of how lucky he was, for most of his life to find a woman to stand with him, support him and love him, as he did for her.  There was nothing he wouldn’t do for his love.
True love is about working together!

Communication, trust, respect and romance.

Both of you have to be there and in the present. I believe these things often fall by the waste side. It’s better to converse and talk through problems. This can save lots of heartache.
There is my answer. I love romance and true love.

Without romance? I wouldn’t want to be in such an ugly world.