Crush and that loving feeling

Posted: August 26, 2012 in Life

This is something I always love to talk about. It’s an amazing subject and really fascinates me. Maybe because I’m a hopeless romantic.Remember your first crush? Better yet, a recent one? That feeling you get, when the girl you like glance at you and your eyes lock. When they do you quickly look away, you both know it’s too late.

How something as simple as a touch can freeze your heart.

A flash of a smile sends your heart soaring. When you talk the world doesn’t exist,only the moment.It’s really amazing how the idea of someone can make you feel good,lift your spirits.Think of all the songs,books and movies that cover this subject and that of love. It’s funny how the coolest person can come unglued. I know for me,when I really like someone it’s so hard to be myself. Some times I get real serious or have a ton of corny jokes. Like Will Ferrel in Talladega Nights,I don’t know what to do with my hands.

The Urban Dictionary defines a Crush as “A burning desire to be with someone who you find very attractive and extremely special.”

Granted looks play a part in it.

For me it has more to do with what’s inside the person.I mean we have all met people who are stunning on the outside,but trash on the inside. Right?

Beauty can be purchased, a heart of gold can’t.

Now a crush can turn into true love or it can leave you out in the cold.

Never let the crush get too ahead of you. Find out about that person and allow the walls to come down. Be honest and build a friendship.

From a great friendship can become a great relationship. Just don’t end up in the friend zone. Nothing cuts like seeing your crush with another.

Timing is everything and can make or break the situation.

I don’t know about you guys (or girls) ,but i have bite my tongue on crushes.

I may have (or have not) missed out on something. I don’t know because I didn’t take the chance.

I learned to open my mouth and tell someone how I feel about them.

Sometimes it works,sometimes it fails.

However the ending, I was always glad I said something.

I fear getting hurt as much as the next person. As the old saying goes. “Its better to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all”

So when you get those butterflies in your tummy or your heart beats so loud that you swear she could hear it.

Tell her and who knows you maybe talking to your future wife.

No guts, no glory

However, don’t go over board,because that can become creepy and uncomfortable. If you do say something and afterwards she doesn’t reach out to you and doesn’t return your text messages. Leave it be, last thing you want is to appear needy or pushy. That’s a turn off and then just becomes awkward. Use the laws of percentage.

If you are the only one texting,e-mailing or calling. Then you have your answer. She’s just not into you.  Pack it up and move on.

So as much as a crush can feel great, don’t get lost within it.


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